[give_form id="19690"]

Caring For A Senior Loved One When You Live In Separate Homes

Whether you live across town or across the country, today’s technology has made it easier than ever to care for a senior loved one. From activity trackers to video calling devices, you have an impressive array of options that will make your job as a senior caregiver easier. Keep reading for information on these and how you can best incorporate them into your senior’s life.

Your role as a Senior Caregiving

Before we look at different technology, it’s important to understand your role as a senior caregiver. As the National Association for Continence explains, you are there for support and to be helpful. You must always remember that your parent or grandparent is an adult, and he/she should be treated as such. While you may have to make decisions for them from time to time, remember to approach your duties with love and an open mind. They may not be ready to adopt features of the modern world, and your job is to be patient and encouraging.

Hi-Tech Help

One of the greatest inventions of the modern world is the activity tracker. Medicare.org notes that many of these even offer location tracking, which can help you keep tabs on a senior loved one suffering from cognitive decline. If your loved one tends to wander, providing them a wearable device that can show you where they are at all times will ease your mind significantly. You can also keep a close watch on their activity levels, which can help you gauge how they are feeling mentally and physically.

Smart home hubs are another piece of equipment to consider. Devices, such as Amazon’s Echo Show, may be linked to your senior loved one’s telephone so that they can make video calls simply by asking their device to do so. They can call you directly on your phone if they need something, and you can drop in virtually if you are at work or cannot visit due to an illness or other constraints.

For seniors that take lots of different medications, a pill reminder or medication call reminder service can keep them current on any prescriptions they’re expected to take daily. Another benefit to senior health is the availability of online exercise programs, available through YouTube and other video sites. Seniors can quickly and easily find an exercise routine that’s right for them without the hassle, expense, or risk of driving to the gym.

Smart home security systems are something else to consider. These give you remote access to different features of your loved one’s property. You might, for example, link to a video doorbell to see who’s calling on them when they are alone. Keep in mind, however, that it might be necessary to install WiFi extenders to ensure every room in their home and on their land is connected. Dwell recommends the Mesh WiFi system, but there are many others available.

Finally, you can use technology on your end to further improve your senior’s overall health and wellness. One great example is to use your own internet connectivity to order groceries for delivery. Many seniors find that going to the store is just too much, and, with an order of just $35, Costco and many other grocers will deliver directly to your loved one’s front door.

Of course, you can always stick with the tried-and-true telephone. However, even cell phones have limitations. When you cannot be with your loved one 24 hours a day, you can let technology work for you. From installing a home security system to extending their Wi-Fi so their devices continue to work, the above tips can help you be a better caregiver to your loved one and will ease your mind on the days you are away.


About the author:

Claire Wentz is the creator of Caring From Afar and author of the upcoming book, Caring from Afar: A Comprehensive Guide for Long-Distance Senior Caregivers. Claire is a former home health nurse and recognizes that our aging population means many more people will become senior caregivers over the years.  She is interested in providing support to those caregivers who do not live near their loved ones and hopes her writing will uplift them, and give them peace of mind when they need it.

Comments

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Related Articles

An older couple smiling and talking in a laundry room, with the man holding a coffee mug and managing male stress incontinence, while the woman holds a stack of folded towels.

Managing Male Bladder Leaks in Everyday Life: A Practical Guide to Comfort, Fit, and Discretion

A few drops after leaving the bathroom. Leakage when you cough or lift something. A sudden urge that makes it difficult to reach the restroom in time.
Bladder leaks can show up in different ways, and even a small leak may change how you feel about a commute, a meeting, a walk, or a night away from home. Understanding your pattern of leakage can help you find both appropriate medical care and a daily routine that works for you.

An elderly couple sits on a cozy couch, snuggled under a blanket. Smiling and relaxed with a TV remote, they feel confident thanks to discreet bladder leak pads. Framed art and pillows decorate the background.

Ask The Expert: How Can I Manage The Odors, Furniture Stains & Skin Irritation With Leaks?

Helping a loved one manage heavy to severe incontinence can be physically and emotionally demanding, and it’s natural to worry about whether you’re doing enough to support and protect them. While incontinence is often unpredictable, there are many practical steps you can take to maintain your loved one’s comfort, dignity and well-being while also protecting your home from unexpected accidents.

An older man walking on a golf course holds a club. Text promotes Elitone for Men, an FDA-cleared device for pelvic floor activation after prostate surgery—an innovative alternative to traditional incontinence products.

Male Stress Urinary Incontinence After Prostate Treatment: Why Early Action Matters

Male stress urinary incontinence is one of the most common challenges men face after prostate surgery or radiation. While the primary focus is understandably on treating cancer, many men find that bladder leakage becomes the most persistent issue during recovery.
After cancer control, regaining bladder control is often the next priority. Until continence improves, it can be difficult to return to normal daily activities, and many men focus on this before addressing other aspects of recovery, including sexual function.

An older couple smiling and talking in a laundry room, with the man holding a coffee mug and managing male stress incontinence, while the woman holds a stack of folded towels.

Managing Male Bladder Leaks in Everyday Life: A Practical Guide to Comfort, Fit, and Discretion

A few drops after leaving the bathroom. Leakage when you cough or lift something. A sudden urge that makes it difficult to reach the restroom in time.
Bladder leaks can show up in different ways, and even a small leak may change how you feel about a commute, a meeting, a walk, or a night away from home. Understanding your pattern of leakage can help you find both appropriate medical care and a daily routine that works for you.

Upcoming webinar titled Managing IBD While Becoming Independent, presented by Dr. Marla Dubinsky on October 27, 2026, at 7:00 p.m. ET, hosted by the National Association for Continence and supported by Johnson & Johnson.

Heading to college, starting a job, or taking more responsibility for your health? Join Dr. Marla Dubinsky for a free webinar on managing Crohn’s disease or ulcerative colitis while becoming more independent. Learn tips for managing medications and appointments, navigating school and social life, and speaking up about your needs. Young adults and the parents or caregivers supporting them are welcome.