If you’ve ever had the feeling that you’re going to wet yourself during the act, you’re not alone. Many women report feeling the urge to pee during sex – even those who don’t normally experience incontinence. The main reason this usually occurs is due to the pressure that is put onto the bladder by the penis. This is called stress urinary incontinence and can be triggered by anything that puts pressure on the bladder – coughing, sneezing, laughing, working out, and having sex. But, it could also be that you’re experiencing the feeling of female ejaculation during sex.
Here are 3 ways to help you eliminate the feeling of needing to pee during sex
1. Empty your bladder before you have sex.
One of the simplest solutions to ensure you aren’t going to pee during sex is to use the bathroom before doing the deed. This will ensure that even if you feel pressure, your bladder will be empty, greatly reducing the chance of an accident. (This will probably reduce your fears about it too, so you can actually enjoy yourself!)
2. Try a change in position.
Sometimes, a simple position change can do the trick to eliminate the sensation of needing to pee during sex. Experiment with your partner to see what sexual position feels best for you.
3. Experiment on your own to see what works best for you.
Some women feel the sensation to pee before having an orgasm. To know if your fears are really a precursor to pleasure, spend some alone time exploring your body with your fingers or a small vibrator. When you feel the sensation to pee, keep going. If it passes, you know that it is just the way your body reacts to the sensation and you’ll be able to better tell in the future between actually having to pee and being on the verge of experiencing an orgasm.
The good news is that if you experience the feeling of peeing during sex, it is fixable. If the above suggestions don’t work, try talking to your doctor about it. They may recommend that you see a physical therapist who specializes in helping women address issues related to the pelvic floor.
A physical therapist can provide you with a complete physical exam and give you tailored treatment options to improve your pelvic floor health. This may include things like Kegel exercises, which are used to improve the muscle function of your pelvic floor. This can improve bladder control, improve bowel control, and may even enhance sexual pleasure by increasing the blood flow to the sex organs.
Talk bottom line: If you are experiencing the sensation of peeing during sex, give some of the above lifestyle changes a try. And, if you don’t find success, talk with your doctor about your treatment options.
10 Responses
Same @janice ribe
Yea, I just get the urge to pee right after I’m done. Even if I use the bathroom I HAVE to pee
Just use a towel or mat underneath to supplement your mattress pad and be able to wash just that in washer after – I’m a guy, just let fly and enjoy – it no longer bothers either of us if it happens that she pees. So what? Just enjoy each other
It’s happening to me when I use a vibrator no orgasm just peeing myself basically.
En mi caso es diferente
Mientras tengo sexo y siento que me mojo es súper placentero lo disfruto y mi pareja también lo disfruta.
Al principio pensé que me orinaba.
Pero es algo inevitable y es una experiencia fantástica.
Que cuando pasa me siento liberada.
Y cuando pasas días y meses me desespera no poder hacerlo y me ayudo con mis dedos y descanso.
Saber que como hombre me encanta que orine una mujer mientras llega al orgasmo.tambien que tenga ganas de evacuar
Es vergonzoso que salga orina mientras dura la relación sexual por qué también me dan ganas de evacuar durante el el acto sexual es vergonzoso
Si supieran que a los hombres nos encanta que se orinen durante el sexo, lean sobre el squirting y vivan su sexualidad!!! no se repriman.
Tengo una lesión medular. Una de las secuelas es que no siento la necesidad de orinar ni controlo cuándo sale la orina. Me mantengo seca vaciando la vejiga cada 4-5 horas pues una vez llena la vejiga, se vacía por sí sola si no lo he hecho yo a tiempo. Mi problema es que al tener relaciones sexuales, cuando noto que alcanzo el orgasmo, mi vejiga se vacía por completo en cuestión de 5 segundos aunque haya ido al baño antes del sexo. Me gustaría saber si tiene solución pues es algo muy molesto que muchas veces “me corta el rollo”.
Why do I urinate doing sex . Is so embarrass and even if I go to the bathroom is like my bladder can not be fully empted. I still have the accident even if I don’t drink or use bathroom.